All of us we have been faced with this killer once or more
times in our lives. We have heard his comfortable and relaxed voice in our
hearts or from others. We know about him and we know him – IT IS TIME TO
DECLARE WAR TO EXCUSE!!!
What is Excuse – is try to find reasonable explanations to
do not do something.
Success and prosperity
of a man determines by his requirements to himself. When we don’t want to
require from ourselves we avoid our future.
Any life accident can become either curse or a blessing - it
depends from our attitude to the accident.
Your surrounding reality is forming under the influence of
individual perception.
We have life that reflects everythingwe want it to see in our life!!!
If we accept every failure as a sign from above and discover
wisdom within us to accept it right – then we got the chance to change the
failure into victory. And opposite, if we accept all our failures as a proof of
our weakness and inability to get a success, we promote inferiority complex and
exhaust ourselves in dead end.
We can’t stop some situations in our life, but we always
have chance to change the influence of this situations and failures over our
lives.
Most common reasons
that people use for excuses:
1)I
don’t think this is important - Habit to live the way we got used to live,
without a purpose in life.
2)I
am not successful as others - When we too much curious about lives of others,
especially when we are too much curious about their successes.
3)I
can’t do something - Lack of self discipline – food etc.
4)It
is not possible - Lack of ambitions and unwillingness to break own limitations.
5)Nothing
will work out - Negative perception that became a habit.
6)It
is too big for me, so I can’t do this - Aspiration to get what we want without
putting efforts.
7)I
have no time, I am too tired - Inability to plan and lack of time management.
8)It
will not be possible to accomplish, too heavy for me - Inability to be
faithful.
9)There
is no one to help me - Unwillingness to do something for others.
10)They
are not worthy - Desire to revenge (мстить).
11)I
am not good as others - Habit to gossiping about others.
12)I
will make it later - Habit to postpone everything for tomorrow.
13)It
will take too much from me to do - Habit to avoid life difficulties instead of
trying to overcome them.
14)Nobody
cares about it - Desire to be respected by everyone without putting efforts for
this.
THE biggest danger of an excuse – is when you start to believe in your
own excuse.
How to change:
1)Understand
that excuse affect my life.
2)Find
what God thinks about me and my life.
3)Find
reasons that will me to accomplish.
4)Concentrate
more on your possibilities, rather then impossibilities.